A Chat With Peter Friedman and David Margulies, Who Visit the Past in The Hatmaker's Wife

By Carey Purcell
09 Sep 2013

David Margulies
Photo by Carol Rosegg
Margulies and Friedman play very different kinds of men in The Hatmaker's Wife; Margulies' character is obsessed with his business and hats, while Friedman is less successful but, Margulies thinks, a happier man.

"I think in friendships there are often varying types who are attracted to each other," Margulies said. "They fill the part in the human picture that's not your own."

The relationship between Margulies and Friedman is not the only one in Yee's play; The Hatmaker's Wife also addresses romantic relationships — and the dissatisfaction that can linger within them.

"This woman is a young woman, but I think she has a real knowledge about how difficult love is, and how we are all in some way limited in our ability to love — by what we've been through, what we've come from," Margulies said of Yee. "[The play] is saying something sad and true about how we take each other for granted, and how we'll be sorry if we do that, and how we're important to each other, even though we can't realize it at the moment," Friedman added.

The passage of time is another theme in The Hatmaker's Wife, which both Margulies and Friedman commented on.

"We try to get beyond it in certain ways...there are real changes in the play. It's not static in its emotional understanding. The play recognizes that time passes and that we're all affected by what happened to us," Margulies said. Friedman, however, commented, "Time really isn't passing. The past is present, and we're all living at the same time. There's a piece of the past in today."

As time has passed throughout their extensive careers, both Margulies and Friedman have seen changes take place in the theatre industry. Margulies commented on the evolution of the city itself, with both actors and theatres located farther and farther out in Brooklyn, resulting in changes in audience demographics, while Friedman spoke of the new works being produced Off-Broadway.

"I'm happier today than I can remember being," Friedman said of his recent work. "I have interesting scripts that are coming in. I'm reading great stuff by a really wonderful new generation of writers. I'm seeing some really swell things. Nothing's boring. There's some very new stuff going on, and people looking at how relationships are portrayed onstage is wonderful."

One relationship in The Hatmaker's Wife that does not differ from Margulies' life offstage is his character's fondness for hats. He developed an affinity for them when he began balding and is now known as "the hat man" in the elevator of his building. Much to his amusement, he has developed a reputation as a fashionable dresser, when the majority of his hats were purchased off tables on the street for a few dollars.

"I'm always in some hat," Margulies said. "I'm complimented on the street by strangers on these inexpensive straw hats."

While art may be imitating life in some regards in The Hatmaker's Wife, both Margulies and Friedman expressed hope that the play would affect its audience.

"That's one of the great things about art — it can touch on these things and awaken responses in the audience that make them maybe more conscious of something in themselves, in their own lives, that they didn't expect when they went into the theatre," Margulies said.